V.K.GUPTA v. Nirmala Gupta
KRISHNA IYER, J. Upon hearing counscl, the Court passed the
following order :
This matrimonial litigation, where a husband (the petitioner)
unsuccessfully tried to get a decree for divorce of his wife (the
respondent) under Section 13(1) (b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, has
landed in this Court as a petition for special leave to appeal. Custo
mary ac~usations on both sides were made in the pleadings and
evidence, but the High Court (both the single judge and the
division bench) did not grant dissolution of marriage. When we beard
counsel on both sides on a preliminary basis we impressed upon them
the benign perspective which the Court must bring to bear upon a
matrimonial cause. It is fundamental that reconciliation of a ruptured
marriage is the first essay of the judge, aided by counsel in this noble
adventure. The sanctity of marriage is, in essence, the foundation of
civilisation and, therefore, Court and counsel owe a duty to society to
strain to the utmost to repair the snapped relations between the parties.
This task becomes morn insistent when an innocent off-spring of the
wedding struggles in between the disputed parents. In the present case,
there is a child, quite young, the marriage itself being young.
We have had the advantage of responsive counsel on both sides
who shared the spirit .of our suggestion, worked on the minds of their
clients and healed a wounded situation into a healthy rapproachment.
What is equally noteworthy is the circumstance that the parties them
•dves reacted sensitively and constructively. Naturally, there was
initial resistance, mistrust, apprehension and, therefore, a string of
conditions in arriving at a consensus between the parties. At the end
of this conciliatory journey, it was possible to reach a happy desti
nation resulting in the resolution of the conflict between the parties and
eventual restoration of the conjugal home.
Today, counsel on both sides put in statements which we are
recording in the proceedings. In substance, both husband and wife are
basically agreed upon living together with the ardour and lover of
partners in life. The minor frictions which got distorted into disrup
tion was really the wear and tear of wedded fabric. We are able to
discern in the two statements a sincere wish to come together and
enjoy •he conjugal bliss which is their right. We further notice a
concern on both sides for the little, lovely child whose future is
largely moulded by the sweetness and survival of the wedlock.
At the end of brief submissions on both sides, the respondent
(wife) agreed to go to her matrimonial home and live with her
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husband (the petitioner) right away. On our gentle persuasion, they
moved from the Court to live together in the husband's home--the
husband assuring the Court that he will live with and love his wife and
the wife, in turn, agreeing to live in the family of the husband as a
good daughter-in-law would do in a Hindu family. We are glad lhat
the story has ended happily.
We direct the husband and wife (petitioner and respondent) to
live together in terms of their statements and, hopefully, never to
separate until death do them part. As a preliminary experiment we
have directed that the Court will wait for three months to know
whether the marriage is back on its wheels to run smoothly, We have
impressed on the spouses that an ideal marriage is one where--
"each sucked into each,
on the new stream rolls,
whatever rocks obstruct''.
The special leave petition will stand adjourned to 25th January
1980 and counsel on both sides will report on Republic Day eve about
the fortunes of the wedlock which by joint endeavour is apparently
restored. Judicial monitoring is a salutary prophylactic.
N.V.K.